Disconnected: Portrait of a Neurodiverse Marriage

Disconnected


Portrait of a Neurodiverse Marriage

In a late-life romance, Eleanor marries Lars, a brilliant database expert, believing their fairytale love will last forever. But their marriage quickly devolves into angry outbursts and shutdowns. Disconnected powerfully portrays the obstacles that neurodiverse couples must overcome. It will resonate with anyone who struggles to grasp how even the closest bonds can break, and then must create a new life.

“Eleanor Vincent paints a searing portrait of a highly challenging relationship. I read this in one gulp. Wow. This is an important book.”

— Julia Scheeres, NYT bestselling author of the memoir Jesus Land

Eleanor Vincent

My goal is to create stories that engage, move, and uplift readers. I want my protagonists to stumble and overcome against all odds to be ordinary people dealing with extraordinary circumstances. As it turns out, life has dealt me a few of those.

I am the author of two books, Disconnected: Portrait of a Neurodiverse Marriage and Swimming with Maya: A Mother’s Story. Both books are memoirs, and both are ultimately about love and loss.

Disconnected, my most recent book, is a fierce, funny, and compassionate look at my late-in-life marriage to a man on the autism spectrum and the heartbreak of its end. $

Eleanor Vincent

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Life After Neurodiverse Love

Life After Neurodiverse Love

Life after neurodiverse love is like being in the eye of the hurricane. My life is whirling at warp speed but I'm standing at the still center. If you know the feeling, then you’ll recognize the moment where I find myself now. I'm on the threshold of a new life after...

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A Hard Look at Love

A Hard Look at Love

My new book takes a hard look at love. If your partner is neurodivergent, you have special challenges to overcome. My new memoir, forthcoming from Vine Leaves Press in November, is an unflinching exploration of love on the autism spectrum. When I began writing my book...

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Maya’s Bright Spirit

Maya’s Bright Spirit

On April 1, my daughter Maya went skiing in the Sierra Nevada mountains. She was 19, home on spring break from community college. She went to a resort outside of Truckee with her friends for a day of fun. It was 1992. When she arrived home early that evening, I had...

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Anthologies


Impact Anthology

Impact: An Anthology of Short Memoirs

Telling Our Stories Press, 2012

“Lucia’s Birth” tells the story of how Eleanor entered grandmotherhood by assisting at her daughter’s labor, interwoven with flashbacks of her birth and growing up years, intercut with memories of Maya. Lucia’s entry into this world changed the way she felt about losing Maya. $

This I Believe Anthology

This I Believe:
On Motherhood

Wiley, 2012

In this collection sixty essayists share, in intimate terms, what motherhood means to them. Eleanor’s essay, “The Gravity of Love,” shows how Maya’s death influenced the celebration of her sister’s wedding as seen through the eyes of the mother of the bride.$

End of Life Anthology

At the End of Life: True Stories About How We Die

In Fact Books, 2012

Eleanor’s essay, “The Resurrection of Wonder Woman,” explores the emotional and ethical impact of organ donation from the perspective of a grieving mother. Maya’s organs and tissues ultimately saved four lives and improved countless others.$

Disconnected: Portrait of a Neurodiverse Marriage

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